Cardio or strength training; Which is best?

There are so many benefits of exercise. Improved mood, improved circulation, weight loss, weight gain (for some), increased bone density, improved ability to carry your children around…I could go on and on. And sure, we probably all know we should exercise but a common question I often hear is what type of exercise is best? And while there are lots of different ways to exercise two of the main types of exercise are cardiovascular “cardio” and strength training. So lets compare, contrast, and look at cardio vs strength training exercise. Then you can make an informed decision on what type of exercise is best for you.

Cardio:

Cardio exercise raises your heart rate and your breathing rate and challenges your cardiovascular system for 10 minutes or more. It involves exercises that range from low to high intensity but usually involve some type of moderate intensity prolonged exercise. The recommended amount of time to spend performing cardiovascular exercise is 20-60 minutes. At this duration, your body burns through its available glycogen energy and begins to burn stored fat.

Common types of cardio:

  1. Running
  2. Brisk Walking
  3. Cycling/ Bike riding (hello Peloton craze)
  4. Swimming
  5. Rowing
  6. Chasing your kids around
  7. Dancing
Pros:
  • Improves the function of your heart, lungs, and circulatory system
  • Helps your heart become more efficient at pumping blood thereby lowering your resting heart rate and reducing the stress placed on the heart day in and day out
  • Burns calories
  • Can help control your appetite
  • Boosts your mood through the release of endorphins, which are feel-good chemicals released by your brain
  • Helps you sleep better at night
Cons:
  • Time consuming
  • Potential for over training leading to overuse injuries or exhaustion
  • Risk of muscle loss- when the body is in a caloric deficient state it will turn to muscles as a fuel source
  • Your body can adapt to repetitive aerobic activities. You will need to increase the intensity of your cardio exercise to make continued gains

 

Strength Training:

Strength training is using your body weight or other tools to increase muscle mass, the strength, and the endurance of your muscles. It is typically done a few times a week and often involves repetitions and sets, commonly thought of as endurance strengthening or circuit training. Strength training can also be used to increase the size of your muscles by lifting medium to heavy weights at high reps or lifting very heavy weights for a few “max reps”. Strengthening is great for building lean muscle and decreasing body fat. Many women are worried about “bulking up” but this is not going to happen unless you are also eating to gain weight and muscle mass.

Common types of strength training exercise:

 

  1. Lifting weights (dumbbells, kettle balls, etc)
  2. Core/stability exercises
  3. Resistance bands
  4. Using weight machines
  5. Using your body weight (or the weight of your kids) to challenge your muscles
Pros:
  • Helps you burn fat
  • Increases your metabolism- strength training helps your body maintain metabolically active muscle mass
  • Improves your ability and ease to perform everyday activities
  • Increases bone density, reducing risks of osteoporosis (especially important in women)
  • Lowers blood pressure and lowers cholesterol and triglyceride levels, reducing risk of heart disease
Cons:
  • Important to maintain good form to reduce risk of injury
  • Often requires some equipment unless using strictly body weight
  • Does not burn as many calories as cardio (in the moment)

So which is best?

So now you have a better understanding of each exercise type. My personal opinion is that not enough people, especially women, incorporate enough strength training into their exercise routines. I believe that women focus too much on the number of calories they burn. Instead they should remember that building lean muscle is important for overall more calorie burn throughout the entire day. Additionally, building muscle helps you feel strong and better able to handle many of the physical stressors we put our bodies day in and day out.

But to answer the question of “which is best?”…the answer is neither. You should try to incorporate both cardiovascular exercise and strengthening into your routine. Now, I know what you’re thinking. Whoa whoa whoa Monica, pump the brakes…who’s got time for all that? While, lucky for you there is secret category number three that includes exercises that challenge your cardio-respiratory system while also building strength (either through resistance, body weight, or through endurance strengthening)

(Secret third category!) Strengthening & cardio exercises:

These type of exercises build muscular strength while also getting you breathing heavy for a sustained period of time. They are my favorite types of exercise because you achieve all the pro’s of strength and cardio in a shorter more efficient time. And isn’t efficiency crucial in motherhood?

Exercises for building strength & cardio fitness:

  1. HIIT workouts involving squats and lunges
  2. Yoga (specifically Vinyasa flows)
  3. Swimming laps or water aerobics
  4. Circuit endurance strengthening

My favorite place to find great HIIT workouts is YouTube (this is one of my go-to’s). You can also find great free circuit training routines on the Nike Training Club app (I have it downloaded on my phone) or by looking through Instagram. Finally, I’ve got a confession…I still frequently do my old Jillian Michael DVDs I’ve had since I was in college. They are quick, efficient, and to this day they make my buns burn and my arms shake. Thanks Jillian. 

Monica

The best (& cheapest) ways to massage yourself at home

There’s nothing like a good massage. Laying face down on a soft heated table while eucalyptus essential oils waft through your nose and you listen to soothing ping-pongy music as someone gently rubs out all the tight tissue on your body is truly what heaven must feel like. Not to mention no one is asking you questions like “Do we need more milk?” and “Where did the sky come from?”…um, it came from the sky…duh. But in addition to the wonderful relaxation and psychological benefits massage brings it also has numerous physical benefits to help our bodies work and feel better. Unfortunately, with all the time constraints life brings (not to mention the global pandemic) it may be hard to find time to get out and get a massage. Luckily there are several wonderful tools and easy ways to give yourself a massage at home. 

Benefits of Massage:

When muscles are overworked or we spend too much time in a particular position, the soft tissue known as the fascia becomes inflamed and tight. This is what causes the feeling of tight and sore muscles. By performing massage (or self myofascial release) you can help to loosen this fascia and improve your mobility, reduce pain, and improve your overall feeling of well being.

The benefits of massage include: 
  • Improved circulation
  • Pain relief
  • Reducing muscle fatigue & tightness
  • Improved flexibility
  • Improved athletic performance

So while it might be challenging to get out of the house for a massage you can use some very inexpensive tools to massage yourself at home. Below are some of my personal favorites: 

The best tools to massage yourself at home:

Thera-cane:

This is best for knots around the shoulder blades. This awesome tool is designed to allow you  to dig into muscle knots (or trigger points) around your upper back. By keeping sustained pressure on these knots you can encourage them to release. 

Thera Cane Massager: Green

Foam roller:

This tool is best for rolling out tight muscles such as hamstrings, upper back, lower back, your IT band and calves. It is a great way to relieve tension and tightness in these muscle areas but requires a bit of coordination. Use a foam roller by rolling over a painful area using your body weight and hold for up to two minutes to release pressure. A foam roller can also be used for improving posture by laying over the top and stretching out your chest and increasing your thoracic (mid back) mobility. 

AmazonBasics High-Density Round Foam Roller, 36 Inches, Black

 
Muscle Roller Stick:

A muscle roller stick is a wonderfully nifty little device. It is a great tool to use on tight leg muscles such as your quads, your shins, your IT bands and your calves. This is great for walkers and runners who often have very tight muscles and fascia in these areas. Simply roll the stick up and down while applying a bit of pressure to help relieve tension and tightness. In a pinch you can even substitute a rolling pin to perform the same task. 

 

TheraBand Roller Massager +, Muscle Roller Stick for Self-Myofascial Release, Deep Tissue Massage Rolling Pin, Trigger Point Release, Muscle Soreness, Best Gift for Runners, Athletes, Crossfit

Tennis Ball (can also be a lacrosse ball): 

This is a great way to work out knots and tightness in the hip and gluteal region. It is especially helpful for anyone experiencing gluteal or sciatic nerve pain. (Ahem, where my pregnant ladies at?) But a tennis ball can also be used similar to a foam roller. Simply use your body weight to apply pressure to any tight regions of your body. Use of a tennis ball is also very helpful for scapular pain, neck tension, and foot pain. 

Wilson Prime All Court Tennis Ball 3 Ball Can

 

I use many of these tools on a regular basis both in the clinical setting and also on myself at home. If you’re a runner or a walker you should definitely be incorporating some type of massage or foam rolling to work out those tight leg muscles. Regardless of your activity level, regular massage is great for your muscles and your body. It hurts so good. I promise. 

Monica

Why a backpack is better

There are probably 348293498 million different baby diaper bags on the market. Striped, flowered, solid print, one strap, two straps, backpack, satchel…hell there’s probably fanny packs. With so many options it can be very hard to know which is best. So, while I don’t have any opinion on the color or print of your diaper bag (that’s a lie…solid neutral tones are best) I have a strong opinion on the type of diaper bag you select. A backpack is best! No ifs, ands, or butts about it. For the sake of your physical well being please choose a diaper bag, everyday bag, or purse,  that is 2 wide straps and falls about midway on your back…aka a backpack. Here’s why a backpack is better.

Good for your body

A backpack is the most ergonomically friendly baby crap hauler. It distributes the workload evenly over both shoulders and therefore, over both sides of your body. When one side of your body is carrying a heavier, unequal workload it causes the opposing side to have to work extra hard to keep your body upright and in a balanced midline position. This constant extra work load on those muscles can lead to strains, muscle knots, and pain. 

Two wide straps

The diaper backpacks generally have two wide straps. Size does matter. Skinny or string style straps will begin to dig into your shoulders and upper trap muscles after time causing muscle strain and pain. Again, a wider strap will more evenly distribute the workload of the bag. And when you have diapers, bottles, sippy cups, wipes, three changes of clothes, sunscreen, toys, snacks, cellphone, wallet, water bottle and anything else you need to haul along you are gonna want that weight distributed. 

Two free hands

You will have two, I repeat, two free hands. You will need all the hands you can get when you’re trying to purchase something and simultaneously hold your toddler’s hand and put your baby’s pacifier back in. 

No swinging or dangling

With a backpack there won’t be any wild swinging that can come from a single strap bag. When we selected our first diaper bag I was very overwhelmed by all the options at Buy Buy Baby. I cried after first going into the store to register. No joke. So, I quickly picked the first thing I saw which was an attractive looking single strap, large diaper bag with lots of pockets. Even when I used it across my body it would swing all over the place when I tried bending over or reaching far outside by base of support banging into everryyyythinggg. So annoyingggggg. A well fitting backpack stays put right where it should…on your back. 

Style

Honestly, the physical therapist in me is soooo happy that backpacks are in style. These days you can find a stylish backpack to use as a purse or kiddie-crap hauler. I actually have this one below from Amazon for little trips with my kids. It’s smaller and more stylish than the big diaper bag. And its waterproof and easily wipes clean if something get spilled. Plus the zipper opens on the backside so i can keep my wallet in it without fear of theft. 

TUCCH Backpack for Women, Anti-theft Ladies Casual Daypack Backpacks Lightweight Water Resistant Nylon College Rucksack Fashion Shoulder Work Bag for Travel/Business/Girls 15L, Black, Medium

I also think my husband prefers the backpack diaper bag look. It’s more manly and sporty looking than the traditional single strap diaper bag. Kyle can feel like he’s heading out a manly trek through the Wisconsin backwoods…although navigating the rough terrain of the neighborhood playground is a close second. Below is the diaper bag we have and I can honestly say me and my husband are big fans. Lots of pockets, thick well fitting straps, nice neutral color. Several of our family and friends have the same bag and our only issue is knowing which is ours when we go to social gatherings.

Diaper Bag Backpack, RUVALINO Multifunction Travel Back Pack Maternity Baby Changing Bags, Large Capacity, Waterproof and Stylish, Gray

There are a lot of options out there but do your body a favor and select a backpack style bag when picking out a new diaper bag or purse. Trust me, when you’re heading out to family gatherings, fairs, festivals (eventually), or just to the store, you will be grateful to have your 30# bag spread over two shoulders instead of one.

Monica

Picking out a diaper bag

How To Prioritize Exercise in Your Life

This post is not intended to be a guilt trip. My goal is not to make you feel bad for being unable to fit in a run or a sweet pump sesh everyday, 7 days a week. Instead I want to share some of my thoughts on prioritizing exercise in your life to encourage you to be, and feel, like your best possible self. 

Between work, kids, your spouse, cleaning, your kids, cooking, your pets, your kids, your social life, laundry, and your kids fitting in a workout might possibly be the last thing on your to-do list. It’s an easy thing to put off and save for another day because the only one who will suffer any repercussions is you. Unless someone is counting on your athletic performance for their payday it’s likely no one is going to get on your case and make sure you exercised (unless of course you have a physical therapist…winky face)

But I think exercise should be a priority. Especially, if it makes you feel good. Also, I think exercise can seem like this daunting, time consuming thing. It doesn’t have to be. Below are my “exercise thoughts”. The way I think about and try to prioritize exercise in my life. 

Prioritize exercise

1. Don’t Put it Off Until the Next Day

Ok, so I’m going to do my best to explain the way I think about daily exercise. It’s hard to put into words, so bear with me. The way I prioritize exercise above other tasks is by thinking “Can that be done tomorrow?”  For example; Can the pile of laundry be done tomorrow? Yup. Could the house be vacuumed tomorrow? Sure. Will anyone starve if I wait until tomorrow to run to the grocery store? Nope. Can I do my workout for today, tomorrow? No. Because that would be tomorrow, and you lost your chance to do your workout today. Once the day is done, it’s done. Finito! And if you wanted to exercise and didn’t…you didn’t exercise. So, if you only have 20 minutes in your day and you have to pick between cleaning your bathroom or doing some exercise. Do the exercise. No one will die if the bathroom is a little messy (hopefully). 

What counts as exercise

2. Lots of Things Count as Exercise 

Exercise doesn’t have to be a lengthy yoga session, a long run, or an hour long power burn strength routine. Surprise!…stretching counts as exercise. Crazy I know. But stretching your legs, your back, or your neck is exercise and can help you feel better. Walking is also exercise. So is chasing your kids around the yard. Do a 10 minute YouTube video. Do some of my exercises on the blog. Walk up and down your stairs 10 times. I try to break a sweat once a day; but some days I just stretch on the floor while I drink my morning coffee and that’s good enough for me.

what counts as exercise

3. Creative Tips for Fitting in Exercise

On the days I am home alone with my kids I often don’t set aside a large chunk of time for exercise sans kids. Instead, I try to do exercise with them. What does that look like? It looks like me doing squats and burpees in the kitchen while my kids eat breakfast; or me doing planks and mountain climbers while I do a puzzle with my two year old; or lunging my way down the hallway while I hold my baby. Sure it probably looks kinda silly, but I don’t care. I feel better and honestly a 9 month baby (or a 2 year old toddler) makes great weight resistance. You can see some of my at home workouts here:

Total Body WorkoutCore Exercises Work Out at Home

4. Sometimes You Have to Play Mind Games to Get Started

Sometimes mustering up the motivation or the energy to work out is really tough. Trust me, I know. There’s been many times when I’ve had to play mind games with myself. Just starting the exercise is often the hardest part. Thinking about how I’ll feel after the exercise is what gets me going. I think about the way my body feels after I work out. There’s nothing like that great feeling after a good run. I don’t necessarily love the way I feel during the exercise but it’s that post workout buzz that I chase.  And usually once you start the exercise your motivation improves. Suddenly an “I’m just going to walk on the treadmill for 15 minutes” turns into a 30 minute walk/jog. Hooray for you!

5. It’s Worth It To Wake Up at the Crack of Dawn

Time constraints are honestly everyone’s biggest hurdle to finding the time to work out. I’m going to be frank with you. Sometimes I get up at 4:00 am to fit my workout in. Blarggggh… I know. It’s rough.  But it’s the only time I have time for exercise. And it’s worth it. I actually feel less tired, have more energy, improved mood, and better productivity on those early morning workout days. If your baby was up five times throughout the night you might want to slap me to the moon if I say “Hey! Get up early to work out! Hehe!!”. But, if you’re not totally sleep deprived I highly recommend the early A.M. exercise. Then it’s done and over with and you can carry on with the rest of your day knowing you did something great for you.

So listen, I’m not perfect at making time for exercise. But these tips above are what I constantly try to remind myself so I can prioritize exercise in my life. Like I’ve said before, we only get the one body…we might as well take care of it. 

Good luck and just do your best to set aside a little time for exercise. 

-Monica 

How to prioritize exercise